tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post895065525314303840..comments2024-03-07T04:01:00.008-04:00Comments on miss fancy pants (the bride): our wedding: more tough stuffUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-25658839508141358882010-09-01T10:55:04.171-03:002010-09-01T10:55:04.171-03:00Oh my gosh not sure why I didn't see this post...Oh my gosh not sure why I didn't see this post sooner... I really feel like this spoke to me. I am having to deal with so much family drama with my mom right now and feeling pretty down about how she's treating me, and acting during this special time in my life. I understand a wedding doesn't bring people together or change their attitudes, but it's sad when people, especially family can't put their feelings and selfish wants aside for you. When I read posts like this it reassures me that yes, things may go wrong on the wedding day and in life, but all I can do is enjoy myself and live my life and everything will work itself out. <br /><br />I loved what you wrote, <br /><br />"But thankfully, it didn't put a damper on our day. Once we realized that his mom wasn't going to set aside her differences with us and be happy for us on our wedding day, we decided to save ourselves the heartache and stop trying to force some sort of meaningful connection." --- so true! :)<br /><br />Thank you!Nicole-Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764959533612146877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-2674486786736733452010-08-10T20:59:19.774-03:002010-08-10T20:59:19.774-03:00Thank you for writing this. We had our fair share ...Thank you for writing this. We had our fair share of family struggles too and it helps to not feel so alone in it.kchttp://www.shinyprettybits.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-21380982780022262292010-08-10T07:29:24.032-03:002010-08-10T07:29:24.032-03:00i am so impressed by you taking all this in stride...i am so impressed by you taking all this in stride! My family is driving me crazy right now and this post may just help me through it allLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16968993895571206033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-17426838444910727422010-08-10T05:43:12.693-03:002010-08-10T05:43:12.693-03:00I'm glad you didn't let it ruin your day. ...I'm glad you didn't let it ruin your day. But what a horrible thing to come back to after your honeymoon.<br /><br />I understand how you can't just wipe away those things as well! I've got a crappy sister-in-law (Hubby's brother's wife) who every thinks is this amazing angel and she's been a complete cow to me. Thankfully she was good as a bridesmaid but I'm glad all of that is over and I rarely have to deal with her anymore. Still I understand that bitterness it can leave.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03025585796369163157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-87967834893756694932010-08-09T21:37:56.146-03:002010-08-09T21:37:56.146-03:00Woah.
How can anybody think that being that self...Woah. <br /><br />How can anybody think that being that selfish is okay?!<br /><br />Thanks for being honest. I am really concerned about family rifts coming to a head around our wedding so I read these posts with interest, but nobody has admitted anything but bliss before. I'd rather be prepared.<br /><br />The important thing though is that you and Mr. FP are a team ;)Miss Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11831964957323606168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-53696278223829367892010-08-09T21:11:32.322-03:002010-08-09T21:11:32.322-03:00Again, thanks for the honesty. There's been a...Again, thanks for the honesty. There's been a little drama as we've done our planning (my sister won't be coming, for instance) and I appreciate hearing about your experience, even though it wasn't all peaches and roses.A-L,https://www.blogger.com/profile/09572086822325849480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913308670961435636.post-59783160133054109842010-08-09T15:39:43.931-03:002010-08-09T15:39:43.931-03:00Wow. Thank you for your honesty and openness about...Wow. Thank you for your honesty and openness about ALL of this. What a difficult thing to overcome, but you and FP have each other and that makes the world and its problems and its frustrations so much easier to conquer. Good luck getting past all of this. Sounds like you two are well on your way! xo.nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06751056646800096858noreply@blogger.com